ummm... i wanna write a lot bt nuthin worth writin comes to mind.....
DUH! my brain is sooo uncreative nw...
hmm... today i was at office n a thot came to mind.... y do parents interfere with the childrens marriage and love life.. aint it the kid who has to live this person whom they marry aint it the right decission to give the kids a chance to find their partners...... i knw sum gals personally who r married to guys of their parents choice or to sum1 whom they don't love jst becox their parents didn't approve of the person they love...n knw wht?? they r so unhappy n they kinda like have affairs....or lets say they flirt around n mess armd.... bt r they to blame?? it wudn't have happened if in the first place they cud have got the guy they loved.. i guess....
wonder whether the parents be happy knowin how their kid suffers??? wudn't it have be nice to see their kids happy with the person they love.. or maybe the guy/gal is bad..bt wudn't it be better for the person to find it herself.. um i dunno.... y does everythin in life has to be soooo damn complicated...
i dun think ppl wud be gettin wht i wrote even
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9 comments:
hey, i do understand what you wrote!! cause it has happened to me.. and i felt like,, this post is personally written to me.. ;p
i knw ,its just your wonders.. but rare konnamaves,, mee hama vamun dhaa kantha dho.. :(
parents! they will never understand!
ya .. evrythin in life is sooo complicated... i too think tht y parents take tht decision... e eii baeh parents gengulhey boadhaaa gotheh kanneyge dhoa?? i don know :(
anyway intresting post :)
yeah parents get over-curious and over-protected and over over of everything
and i hate it :/
i got wat u said..n this is so true..i wonder y they dun understand..cx they wud have been in luv once..so they shud understand! arrrgh..as u said, these things are way too complicated to even talk abt!
i dont quite agree with it. yea, there are parents who find partners for their daughters. but they are doing it for the girl's own good in their mind. or thats just how they think about it. they have got the experience to prove it. BUT there are few things they dont understand as u have stated in ur post.
but this is where i make my point. Its upto the girl to do sumthing about it. yea, its ur parents and theres respect yada yada. but its HER life. not her parents. Its her submission or agreeing that makes the marriage possible. she gives the final say right before they are married, even if she is doing it for her parents. She has to go talk with her parents and MAKE them listen. try to reason out with them. if they cant im sorry to say this but if that cant be done i believe that the bond thats supposed to be there inbetween a parent and a daughter isnt there. its all upto the girl. if she cant stand up to her beliefs or her 'love' then she aint in love as she much as she thinks she is.she should have some guts. hama komme kamakah aanh hoon kiyaigen submission board alhuvaigen inas nuvaane. even if its ur own parents. its ur life not theirs.
kaiza i agree with u... n i knw parents who rn't like tht ... my parents rn't like tht..... bt i jst see so many ppl struck in the situation
hmmm..
as kaiza said, parents do that to make their kids happy
kids agree coz they want their parents to be happy
communicate with your parents people! helps a lot!
i experience this too & have to constantly fight with them. not only on love life but almost everythin. kaiza has a point, they try to interfere cos they care & they want us to be happy, which shud be appreciated. BUT wudn't it be nice if they consider what'll truly make us happy & treat us as adults who're capable of making our own decisions...
there are parents like that as well dho. but most ppl arent. cant really blame em. for example about 5-6yrs back we wourselves will know how our thinking was. we can NOW clearly see the difference. sometimes we feel stupid as to how we had acted back in those days. its just the smae with parents. no matter how wise we think we are our parents would have years of more experience than us. plus this is maldives we are living in. every day we hear of an abortion, a rape, a child molestation, a knifing, gang fight etc etc. they'll be scared. Most of them cant allow it all to hang by just one thread which is our decision and action. i for one am sure i can hold myself back from drinking, drugs etc etc. but i could never give a 100% to even my closest friends. maybe the smae logic can be applied to our parents. not that they dont trust us but not as much as their way of thinking.
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